No.16

Dia adalah perempuan paling keren dan baik hati yang pernah gue temui. Gue sudah mengenal dia selama 2 tahun dan dia tidak pernah sekalipun bikin gue kesel. Dia selalu menyenangkan dan disayang banget sama temen-temennya bahkan banyak sekali orang yang naksir dia.

Dari dia gue mempelajari banget bahwa pepatah yang bilang: Elo gak akan mendapatkan apa yang loe pengen tapi loe itu akan mendapatkan apa yang loe butuhin... itu benar sekali.

Dia menjalani prinsip itu dan sekarang dia memiliki sebuah kehidupan yang superduper nyaman dan bahagia...

Dia adalah orang pertama yang akan gue jadikan tempat bercerita tentang apapun yang terjadi dalam hidup gue. Ada saat dimana gue sangat menyebalkan karena gak sadar-sadar kalau gue itu salah. Ketika itu gue masih mengeluarkan kalimat-kalimat optimis...dan dia hanya berkomentar seperti ini: "I'm so fucking touched by your words." Hehehehe...

Gue sangat berterimakasih dikasih kesempatan untuk bisa mengenal dia sedekat ini. Menurut gue, dia adalah salah satu sumber inspirasi banyak orang dan bisa memberikan banyak pelajaran hidup untuk orang lain...

No.15

Sebenarnya gue kenal dia baru. Bahkan bisa dibilang gue ketemu dia itu cuman 2 - 3 kali. Tapi pada suatu malam gue bertemu tidak sengaja di sebuah cafe dan gue mendapatkan kesempatan untuk ngobrol dengan dia. Saat itulah gue bisa mengenal dia lebih dalam dan gue menyukai kalimat-kalimat yang dia keluarkan dari bibirnya. Ini dia quote dia:

1. gue percaya komitmen dan menghargai komitmen dan gue mau berkomitmen... Tapiii.. jujur aja gue gak yakin bisa menjalankan komitmen gue dengan benar. so.. antara gue single atau triple sekalian... (hahaha... LOL)

2. Gue itu bangsat!

3. Gue kan Cancer ya... anaknya setia hati, tapi gak setia fisik...

HAHAHAHAHAHA... setelah dia ngomong gitu, gue langsung ngomong gini: "Mana sepatu loe? Gue mau foto buat dimasukin ke blog gue!"

No.14

Dia menyelamatkan gue saat gue sedang berada di ambang kehancuran...
Kehadiran dia sangat menolong gue untuk bisa "survive" di masa-masa itu...
Gue berharap selamanya bisa menjadi teman baik untuk dia.... :)

No.13

Perempuan ini adalah seseorang yang gue kenal disaat dunia gue sedang gila-gilanya! Disaat hidup gue abisin hanya untuk hangout, substansi, party dan prinsip pulang ke rumah saat Adzan Subuh berkumandang... Dia adalah teman yang menyenangkan, sifat anak sulung sangat terlihat dari cara dia menjalani hidup... Ada satu hal dari dia yang selalu gue inget sampai saat ini. Suatu hari di akhir taun 2005, dia mengajak gue ngobrol tentang hal ini:

DIA: Kita mau sampe kapan ya, hidup kayak gini? Kapan kita lulusnya coba?
GUE: Iya... hehehehehe.. main teruusss..
DIA: Kita beresin skripsi yuk... Gimana? Taun depan bulan Februari, kita harus udah lulus. Bisa gak loe?
GUE: bisa deh! (sembari gak yakin secaraaaaaa hidup adalah main bagi gue saat itu)

Akhirnyaaaa... kita berdua lulus. Dia lulus bulan Maret 2006. Gue lulus bulan April 2006. Beberapa bulan kemudian, dia pindah kerja ke Malaysia. Saat itu gue udah mulai ngurangi main.... Beberapa bulan setelah dia tinggal di Malaysia, gue pun pindah kerja ke Jakarta.

Bayangin kalau dia gak ngomong seperti itu, mungkin gue masih lebih lama lagi bangun dari tidur panjang yang berjudul MAIN.

No.12

Dia adalah stranger buat gue. Kenal pertama kali di sebuah blog.
Sering berkomunikasi di situ.. Tak pernah ketemu muka..
Lalu suatu hari kita melakukan sebuah janji untuk nonton bareng.
Pertama kali ketemu, dia diem banget.. Awkward sekali!
Tapi lama-lama... hubungan pertemanan kita semakin baik...
Kita makin sering main bareng dan akhirnya gue pun merasa nyaman dengan dia.
Persahabatan ini udah berlangsung hampir 2 taun dan bagi gue, dia adalah satu dari sedikit orang yang sabar menghadapi gue. Padahal umur kita sama...
Disaat semua orang udah give up sama gue, dia masih ajaaa sabar sama gue.
Yang gue pelajari dari dia adalah: Dia tidak pernah mengeluarkan kata-kata kasar seperti Anji**. Penting banget nih ditiru!
Dan pada suatu hari, dia mengajarkan gue untuk menjadi seorang wanita sejati dengan berbagai wejangan dan cara-cara menjaga penampilan dan memiliki attitude layaknya perempuan yang gak serampangan... Dia bilang: Emang harus menderita kalau jadi perempuan yang cantik dan rapi.. Hehehe...
Satu lagi: Dia bilang dia cukup senang melihat perubahan diri gue yang udah mulai merhatiin penampilan dan sedikit demi sedikit mengurangi sifat egois...
I love u, my girl... Loe adalah salah satu teman dari dunia maya terbaik gue!

No.11

He introduced me to the life of substance.

He’s the one who’s all of a sudden ym-ing me to say this blog is wicked.

By reading this blog he told me he realized why I wear one tone color most of the times.

I told him I wanted to be an adult.

And here’s his reply:

But then again if cuwawakan binti pecicilan is something that u born with, then enjoy it as ur natural posession... dont try to change it... but try to control it a bit wont do u any harm.

No.10

I saw him first in a cover of a book.

A couple years later, we became colleagues

Maybe he looks like a man with Botox in his face

'Coz he never smiles to you or he never calls you first…

But trust me: He’s a good person.

I learn from him that if you don’t know much about a person, then please don’t judge him/her.

I knew him as a person for 1 year but I never tried to know him better.

I just started to know him a couple of months ago.

And I realized that I had a wrong impression about him.

And I learn this important thing from him:

In this life, we should reach our dream to the maximum limit we have…

Maybe we will be exhausted… or maybe we hate the way people judge us…

or maybe we just want to give up…

But we should trust ourselves that we can do it.

Well… I’m a little bit jealous of him 'coz we’re the same age and he already knew how it feels to buy himself a car, to have a career in different areas, to have a great family and THE MOST THING IS: discipline himself to pray 5 times a day.

(at least he is trying to pray 5 times a day comparing to the lazy me)

To be honest, this blog was made inspired by him…

No.9

Actually, she’s just like me, Fairy tale person who loves to dream.

But I think this hard life made her change her mind.

She tries to make her fairy tale’s side gone and start to think in a logic way.

And I guess that’s what she’s trying to make me...

Well.. maybe she’s succed. But deep down in my heart, I feel that however...

A pisces will always be a pisces… ;)

No.8

She's like a sister to me...or maybe like my mom? Hahaha...

Even though my age is older than her

When I get sick, she will help me, care for me and tell me to take my medicine.

One of her quote I love the most is: DRINK YOUR WATER OR I’LL KICK YOU!

No.7

This girl has a lot of patience listening to all my weird stories. Even some of the stories don't make sense at all. She's the one you'd like to go shopping with. And I am very happy because we have a quite similar state of mind. I love this girl!

No.6

First time I knew him, I just knew that he has a very sharp tongue. In a good way, of course.. I like him because he taught me how to say things the way it is and say it straight to the person. I don't know why, it's always nice to see him. If his sharp tongue gets me, I'll try to be immune.

No.5

This guy makes me start to think that in this world, physical appearance is not everything.

No.4

This guy taught me a lot about anything!
1.According to him, everything has positive values and he can prove that.
2. He taught me that being a person, I should have a calm character. Not all jumpy like I always do.
3. As a human being, don't just do 1 thing in your life because there's a lot of possibilities and chances in this life.
4. He's good with women, and I learned a lot from him.
5. I pray to God to make this guy more concern about his health.
6. I always think that he must be my long-lost brother.

No.3

I used to be afraid to this person

Coz I feel that I’m not that good as a friend

I used to cry when I worked with him

But when I already knew him better, I realized that he’s a good person..

And he taught me one thing: I should be a cool person, never show my feeling too much and just take it easy

One more thing I learned from him: being an adult by wearing simple one tone color

No.2

This person made me learn that I have to let go of things that I can’t have
no matter how hard I try

No.1

This Person already became my bestfriend since 2007. We have a lot of things in common.
Same junior high school. High school. College.
But i didn't realize that...
'till i met him at my old office, one radio in Bandung


He's a kind person..
'coz he really understands I'm a weird person...
but he never said a thing and he's always be there without complaints...

I hope a happy new life will come to him, soon!